This Way of Thinking Helps

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Stoicism can give you a helpful framework for your thoughts & actions.
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It helps you narrow down what to focus on so you won’t have to worry about things you don’t need to worry about.
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The basic idea behind Stoicism is simple.
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There are things you can control. And there are things you cannot control.
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So, focus on what you can control.

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That’s all, more or less.
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You can apply this way of thinking to your BJJ training as well.
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Here, I want to bring your attention to one aspect of BJJ.
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Question:
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Can you control how your opponent is going to react?
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It might seem that you cannot control how your opponent is going to react.
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But the thing is, you can control your actions. You can control how you move unless your opponent is completely dominating you.
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What you want to do is to control your moves in such a way that your opponent will have to react to you in a certain way.
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When you can predict what’s most likely to happen (because you are the one luring your opponent to move in such a way), you will be way ahead of your opponent.
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Essentially, this is what’s happening between high-level competitors when they compete against each other.
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On a related note, I do this mount escape… by kinda giving up my arm.
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I let my opponent think that my arm is available for armbar. (I don’t make it too obvious though.)
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Most people will try to take it.
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And I know when exactly it will happen, and that’s when I do my escape.
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Even in a seemingly bad situation, you can control your actions like this.
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So, whether it’s a BJJ context or outside of BJJ, always ask yourself…
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Is this something I can control or not?
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And if not, how can I achieve similar results by controlling my actions?
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Asking these questions and acting on your answers can help you do better.
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p.s. If you are curious about Stoicism and want to know more about it, here‘s a good starting point.